How good is your relationship with each of the people in conflict?

Good relationship with Mom

If Mom wants to change how she deals with family conflict, there is no immediate safety concern, and you’re able to speak to Mom alone, consider teaching Positive Partner Communication

Good relationship with Mom and other person in conflict

Prioritize personal safety-- If needed, leave and call the police and your supervisor
Defuse emotional distress by using emotion focused reflections, validations, and affirmations
Consider both individuals stage of change
Consider teaching Positive Partner Communication

Good relationship with Mom and poor or no relationship with other person in conflict

Prioritize personal safety-- If needed, leave and call the police and your supervisor
Defuse emotional distress by using emotion focused reflections, validations, and affirmations