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During a screen for family violence, it is possible that mom may let you know that she has acted violently towards a partner or family member. Below are some tips for responding to a mom who endorses perpetrating family violence. It is important to remain non-judgmental, but do not approve of her use of violent behavior.
Ask open-ended questions
- "Tell me more about the last time you were violent with your partner."
Reflect and validate emotion
- "It's understandable that you would feel x in y situation."
Show concern and name the violence
- "I'm concerned about your use of violence in this relationship."
Provide resources
- "There are services that may help reduce violence in your relationship, would you be interested in checking them out?"